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YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF…

1. You’ve always dreamt of getting married in an epic location - the heart of the Redwoods, San Francisco City Hall, or beneath neon lights in Vegas (or anywhere in between!)

2. You shudder thinking of being the center of attention all day + baring your soul in front of people you haven’t spoken to in years (or decades!), or maybe ever!

3. Big, traditional weddings don’t light you up inside. Maybe they don’t send you running for the hills, but a wedding will be one of the biggest investments of your time, energy, and finances you’ll ever make. Do you really want to feel neutral?

I created this page to serve as a hub of elopement information, taking out a bit of the guesswork so that you can get started planning your dream day! No more wondering if it’s called “getting eloped,” or trying to do it all from square one.

You’ll find stories here about eloping in places like Moab, Lake Tahoe, and even on Georgia’s Chattahoochee River, as well as articles like What Eloping Really Means.

not just your elopement photographer

When my husband proposed back in 2017, we immediately were overwhelmed by the well-meaning questions from friends + family about dates, venues, dresses… we knew a big, traditional wedding wasn’t for us. There wasn’t a lot of information around what it even meant to elope in modern times, or how to go about getting married that way. We made it up as we went along and looking back, we wouldn’t change a thing!

i put the lessons learnt in my own elopement into practice, helping the couples I work with elope with less stress.

 is it legal to elope?

This is one of the most common questions about eloping, and I think it shows just how mysterious the whole concept of eloping is still! Eloping still requires the same legal process and paperwork that a more traditional wedding would have in order to be recognized by the government. The specifications vary by state and do change over time, so it’s important to check with the appropriate agencies beforehand (I’m not a lawyer + this shouldn’t be taken as legal advice)

Here I’ll outline a few key points to consider when you’re investigating the legal requirements to elope. This information should be useful so that you have a leg up on getting your elopement plan set up legitimately!

• Your wedding license will need to come from the jurisdiction where your ceremony will be taking place. Typically there’s a fee, but some jurisdictions only charge for certified copies of the marriage license. In order to apply you’ll need personal information like your birthplaces and parents’ names, your social security cards, valid photo ID, and money to cover the fee. Double-check you meet the requirements with the county/state you’re getting married in!

• Witnesses: some licenses require a witness’ signature - in Utah, it’s actually two witnesses - and others don’t require witnesses at all.

• Some states require blood tests from one or both partners as part of the license process.

• Consider the waiting period for the application AND the ceremony (if applicable!). If you’re planning to elope in a different state than you live in the waiting period could significantly alter your wedding plans! Some places allow online applications, while others require the application to be filled out in person at the courthouse.

• After your application for the wedding license is submitted, you won’t have to wait to receive it unless you are in the following states:

  • 24 hours before license can be picked up:

  • 3 days before license can be picked up: Alaska, District of Columbia, Florida (unless you attend a marriage prep class), Kansas, Massachusetts, Michigan, Mississippi, New Jersey, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Washington

  • 5 days before license can be picked up: Minnesota, Wisconsin

• In most states, your wedding ceremony can be performed any time after you receive your license, but in certain states, that’s not true.

  • States with a 1-day waiting period: Delaware, Illinois, New York

  • States with a 2-day waiting period: Maryland

  • States with a 3-day waiting period: Iowa, Louisiana, Texas

• In most cases, there’s also an expiration of your wedding license. In California, your wedding must be performed 90 days from the date you pick up your license, but it varies! In Oklahoma for instance, your wedding must take place in the ten days following your license approval, in Utah you have 32 days, in Wyoming you have up to 1 year. This isn’t an exhaustive list of course - check with the state you wish to be married in for specifics!

• In Colorado, you don’t even need a wedding officiant to perform the ceremony! This is called self solemnization.

• See more information comparing state regulations side by side here. Additional information summarizing US Marriage Laws, like common-law marriages, residency requirements, and more can be found here.

  Note: The above information is subject to vary, as requirements often change by state and county. This information is offered as guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice.